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I would recommend some serious family counseling before this gets any worse. Some for you on boundaries. Some for them on self perception and conflict resolution.

Hmmm...it's bad, and I hate it, but I don't know if I would consider it extremely pathological. I have been considering it a problematic phase. I guess I did use the word "horrific"...

DD is being evaluated this summer for various concerns, but we still have a while to wait. I would say that her concerns are a factor here for sure, but not the only factor.

Are you implying that my posts suggest I have boundary problems? I don't say that combatively. Curious, though.