Well, you can always say you're busy tomorrow. :-)

I agree, any teacher who says not to tell parents ANYTHING is raising a huge red flag.

Have you discussed any of your concerns with the principal yet? I may have missed it but didn't see that in the thread.

If you have not, I would suggest either calling/meeting w/the principal to raise your concerns and to ask for support in meeting your daughter's educational needs. Perhaps the principal can join the meeting with the teacher.

There's some information on the NAGC site that may be helpful as a handout for the teacher/principal. FYI, there is one article that mentions that too much repetition has been shown in some studies to actually be harmful to highly gifted students.