kitkat, big hugs! You sound overwhelmed, and I'm sure it must have been a draining meeting. It's so hard to hear so much about problems with our children, but just remember - you now finally have what you need to build a real plan with your school. No more denial. Next week, you'll have all those people in a room together for one reason: to help your DD. For now, enjoy your family and your holiday, while much wiser folk than I provide more useful advice for your next meeting.