Getting bullied because of gifts came to mind as I read this article on leadership from a weekly digest subscription of Tim Elmore's work.

Rather than focus on the detractor's poor choices, this article affirms that being a standout may make a person a target, and encourages being well-grounded. The function of a lightening rod is discussed. Kids can gain a sense of strength from knowing that great leaders throughout history have received criticism, some of which may be unwarranted. A list of 9 tips is provided which may help avoid internalizing unfounded negatives. Tips include
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Recognize that people act out what they are experiencing inside. It may not be about you. (Hurting people naturally hurt people. Intimidated people intimidate. What’s inside comes out.)