Blackcat, I am going to wait till end of this month to see if they come back with anything. I am not too hopeful.
Puffin, you are not kidding. My heart sank deeper with each of her statements.
Somewhereonearth, my instinct is also to run as I am not good in situations like this. I either completely shut up or completely lose it. If the school does not come back with a reasonable plan, I am not even going to enroll dd there.
Cammom, I felt like she was just trying to throw one hurdle after another for me to cross. I would have much appreciated if she had started the conversation with," so what do mean when you say your dd is good with numbers?"