Bostonian, you're making inferences from a subset of the tails of a statistical distribution and ascribing them to the remaining distribution. Mathematically it doesn't hold water.

Originally Posted by Bostonian
Maybe females have evolved to be more well-rounded and less obsessive because their domestic roles have required that.

It's interesting, because the social psychology literature shows that males whose wives are the dominant household breadwinner are now exhibiting the classic socialized "female" behaviours-- remaining at home to care for children, faking orgasm, engaging in heightened preening. It appears that will dominates skill in the household labour allocation decision regardless of gender.

+1 for gender non conforming females here.

What is to give light must endure burning.