Originally Posted by blackcat
If the conversation is handled carefully, I can see what you are saying polarbear. But I think it should not be over-done and a discussion of effort is also in order, or the bell curve or IQ score is meaningless. Kids who are lower on that bell curve but more motivated may end up doing much better in the long run

ITA blackcat smile And of course, "much better" is so open to personal interpretation!

pbear