MoN you remind me of the day I picked my 3-3.5yr old DD up from preschool and was pulled aside to be told in hushed tones how badly behaved shed been that day. She'd said no to an adult and then stuck her tounge out at them. I do t know how I managed to keep a straight face. Most amusing was that this was the scope and scale of terrible behaviour requiring parental intervention, she was shocked and horrified... No chairs being thrown at teachers at this school!