Well, this is it. I don't know what to say, except to say I've been there and others here have as well.
Public/private schools seems to obsess about what 2e or special needs or kids in general can't do. They seem intent on 'fixing' them and concentrating on their weaknesses rather than building on their strengths or interests, which can be frustrating for 2e kids/parents. They'll focus on a child not doing timed addition rather than the child can do algebra. It's crazy.
Throw out the rules and start from scratch, I say. Homeschool/unschool and make up your own rules instead.
