Well, my husband and I met with a psychologist recommended by our pediatrician yesterday and DD will meet with her Monday. I'm not sure what will come of it, but at least three visits are covered by insurance. It feels good to know that we are at least doing something, but I got the vibe from the psychologist that she doesn't jump to testing. She did mention occupational therapy for some of the sensory issues.

Reading Raising Your Spirited Child is helping me and I got several more book recommendations in our meeting yesterday. I have the feeling I may not be getting the answers I'm looking for, but at this point dealing with the behavior is paramount.