Well, it seems like now the message is 'I won't talk with you if you have an advocate present.' I am of stable mind in general LOL and I am relatively intelligent and relatively well-educated and that is the implied message I am getting.

First, he says "no more emailing, we talk in person" *specifically* in response to an email I sent inquiring about the para situation. I say "okay, I am fine with talking via email but I respect your desire to meet, let's meet" He says "let's have an iep meeting and we'll discuss your concerns and finalize IEP." I say "okay and btw, a advocate is coming with me" and then, today he says "oh I won't discuss certain things in the iep meeting." ???? and "I only want to deal with you or your husband" ???