With these gray-area kids, it seems to really depend on who you're talking to. Which seems...totally aggravating, inconsistent, bizarre, and unscientific.

As far as ASDs/ADHD goes, it goes back to my own pet theories that there is very little we understand about these disorders, that they are a vast spectrum, and that they probably represent a number of different "wiring" issues in the brain, not just one or two.