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 It is important to determine who is suffering with an observed behavioral issue – the child or those around him/her. Labels, treatments, and medications are meant to alleviate suffering in the recipients, not as a means to make those around them happy.

Interesting article, thank you. This quote really spoke to me - we are treating our DD for ADHD because SHE is suffering, we get so much flack for it from her school because they see ADHD as a problem that effects everyone else as much or more as the child in question... She's not bothering anyone else, ergo we are abusive to treat her. SHE is the one that is most effected by her ADHD.