Thanks for the words of wisdom and the book ideas. On a more personal note, DH and I are starting counseling next month and I'm hoping to get some helpful input on the subject from the therapist. Maybe DH will listen more to him then me. smile
My stepmom suggested getting him more into music, that it was another avenue of development. She said she got him a kazoo for X-mas. The DH will just LOVE that.
Any thoughts or ideas ?

smiling as always,
happymother