Thank you to everyone for the responses. This is such helpful food for thought.

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I think that DH and I need to talk things over and see what we can figure out in order to offer DD some ways to meet a wider circle of more-like-true peers. We could drive to {Large Regional City} once a month or so, but more often than that probably just isn't feasible.

If only DD were still interested in Chess or Robotics.

Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.