I think there are absolutely excellent reasons for teenagers to delay having sex aside from potential pregnancy and STDs. I think in general it is emotionally healthier to wait. And given, at least for many girls I knew in high school and college, and that at least in some places this hasn't changed, the shame/stigma for the girl who chooses to have sex with someone she doesn't intend to marry, keeps girls in bad relationships that they wouldn't otherwise stay in. I think it can be beautiful and healthy in a committed relationship with 2 mature people, but I just don't think most high school kids are mature enough to choose wisely.
edited to add this link that I thought was relevant when talking to daughers:
http://rosalindwiseman.com/2010/03/02/is-hooking-up-good-for-girls/

Last edited by deacongirl; 07/09/12 03:01 PM.