Can I just say I hope it didn't sound like I didn't explain the mechanics in my 'special hug' explanation - I did. Once I had explained the whole penis/vagina thing I described it as a special kind of hug - because frankly, without some kind of positive spin, the whole sex thing is pretty unappealing when you just describe the mechanics of it. While I'd like her to delay it as long as possible, I don't think she needs to think of sex as a scary thing. And even with a tiny bit of positive spin dd is completely against the whole idea.
