I'm am INTJ and my hubby is ESFJ which I think is as incompatible as you can get on paper! But we do just fine...I guess opposites attract, or we fill in for the other's weaknessness!
We first used these tests at work and it helps explain why the different types of people sometimes aggravate each other. We are little more sympathetic to each other because of it. But, we do tease each other about it, "Oh, you are such a Feeler!"
For my husband, I now understand why he needs CONSTANT re-affirmation of my feelings for him! It drives me a little crazy, but I show him how much I care a lot more frequently than I used to.
Nan
