Jedsmum,
Not much advice but I can commiserate. DS5 took te WPPSI at 4.1,was identified as gifted. His K teacher and I had a conference yesterday regarding her wish to retain him next year.
Why? Because of severe processing disorders in sensory and language. He also has a functional vision problem that makes it impossible for both of his eyes to focus on a word that is close up.
Armed with his DX i'm fighting for accomodations, they think he should be retained. I have no idea if there is a middle ground for this one, i'm feeling another round of homeschooling coming on.
Be demanding, stomp and fight!