I know. He says she has that ability and potential and could easily achieve it, BUT that is not what he would want for her so to speak as a child. And that DH and I have to look at our life and hers and decide what we want life to look like. He did say he did have one other student in his years who did do that. Had his PhD at 13.5. He wants a best fit for her socially, and said numerous times, "The school district can not meet her needs academically, but I am not concerned about her academics since you all can handle that at home." He said this several times throughout the meetings in several differnt ways
I agree that it is unfair and that truely it is impossible. The reason I go into such detail now, is because I have learned if I dont, more questions come, and more, and more, until she is satisfied. He was amazed at her manner of speach and she talked to him about "friends not fitting and needing to fit like clothes." and about how she is lonely and all the kids her age scribble, and dont understand her, and how she misses her friend Evan. (Who she had in PA who was in 1st grade)
As Dh says, She thrives on learning, if shes not she is miserable. That is just her. Today as soon as we got home from the appointment, DD decided to measure the house using herself as a unit, and had me come along and use popscicle sticks to mark each unit, then she figured out how big each room was. Next she wanted to watch a movie, but on the screen it said ENGLISH FRANCIS ESPANOL, and DD said "I want to watch the movie in Spanish, please click on Espanol. I want to learn Spanish and this is one way I can. I may get a little confused but I know the story of this movie." She then proceeded to watch the almost 2 hour movie completely in Spanish, figuring out words as she went.
Okay, tell me how I am supposed to stop that and slow her down!!!!!!!!!
I am so confused.