Hey Treecrit,
Do you have an IQ test results for your son? Where we live reading 2 grades above grade level in the elementary years is about 20% of the classroom - is that true where you live? Have your read '5 levels of Giftedness' by Deb Ruf? Do you have a sense of his level from his early milestones?
Does he enjoy school? Enjoy his classmates? Have you spoken to the gifted coordinator at the school? Is your son happy playing at home? Does he have neighborhood friends?
Does he do any clubs or afterschool activities that engage his interests? Is he athletic?
What happens in your home if you skip 'working on reading or math' for a few days or weeks?
Best Wishes,
Grinity
