Originally Posted by Wren
Thanks for the back up. For reference, there is that book, "So Sexy, So Soon" that is out there talking about my fears.

The most scary thing...


Ren -

1st, the disclaimers:
1. I have a ds6 not a dd6, so I am not in your shoes.
2. I was a tomboy all the way and don't know what I would do with a "girly girl" (no offense intented to anyone)

OK, now the comments. I can see how the "growing up fast" is worrisome. Especially for girls.

In your post you mentioned fear a few times.

I have read elsewhere (and her too) that parenting from a place of fear can be limiting for parent and child.

so maybe multiple approaces are needed?
1. how to deal with your fears
2. how to help your daughter deal with make-up and adult trappings
3. more?

what do you think?