Thank you Atlanta for your responce.I in no way intend to give up on my son.I in no way intend to stop asking. I've stumbled across The Florida Gifted program website. It states that a parent has the right to request thier child to be tested.(They have denied me that right)I've also been in contact with a childern rights avocate.
We will be approaching the school and demand them to give him the test.And weather he is gifted or not they must find a plan that suits him. However my first priority is an IQ test.I will not give them the chance to mislable him.

I am sooo fustrated. the first time I asked the principle, she said my son was not gifted. she said that what my son needed was to be spanked.
when I asked the assisant principle, She told me that the list for the test was long with kids that are doing good in school . And that my son didn't deserve to be on the list.

My son is not a bad kid.He's not disruptive or disrespectfull. He sit quietly in his chair and doesn't partisipate.he has been sent home many times for this and that is not the solution.

I feel that everyone at school is misunderstanding and underestimating him. It is really depressing. Everday, I sent him off to school hoping that he'll have a good day. I'm even afraid to answer the phone.Mentally, I can't
take another complaint. I can not keep punishing him everyday. It is exusting me and It's not working anyway.