I'm thinking that these behaviors are so rare for her that you certainly don't need to check the box.
Well, yeah, those two incidents are literally it for her misbehaving with other kids. She is very well behaved with other kids, even to a fault. That is not the case with respect to her behavior at home with her parents. I believe that she hits us when she gets angry because it is literally the only thing she can do that will get a rise out of us. She can make huge messes, break things, etc., and we just calmly talk about it & clean it up. I believe that if we had done the same thing wrt violence from the beginning she'd never have developed this problem. We overreacted, and we are still paying for it.
