I talked to his ped last night about no-meds and everything else. She referred me to a counselor who also works with special needs kids. So I'm going to call his office today to make an appointment. Luckily DH isn't opposed to that, so that's half the battle. I agree that meds in such a young kid is a stretch (for me), but I was willing to try it to see how everything worked out.

DeeDee, he doesn't spend as much time with DS as I do, but in the Fall that will change. Their new school is just up the street from DH's work, so he'll have to take them to and from school everyday. I think that will be a real eye opener for him since he's never had to be on "kid duty" (so to speak) every single day of the week.

I'm very interested to see what this counselor has to say.

You guys are great, again, thanks a million.