Belle, would your husband be willing to go to the meeting? My sister takes her husband along to her meetings with the school and she says he gets treated differently.
They're going to stall you again, change the subject and hope you go away, so keep it on topic. If they say no, then ask what the appeal process is, who you should talk to at the district office. Try to determine next steps and schedule the next meeting before leaving.
Oh and take notes so that you can document what they said.