I'm new to the site. My daughter is in 2nd grade an attending a private school to address her academic needs. She is very social and has friends, she gets along well in school and at extra curricular activities. She is also overly sensitive, moody, and very lazy. she is respectful of all her teachers and adults no matter where she goes. The problem, however, is at home she has explosive outbursts over the smallest request by me or her dad and blows up at her younger sister (who is not gifted) over everything. When we talk to her she tells us she has "anger issues" and that she takes out everything she feels all day on us at home. Needless to say it has been very stressful in our home. We have tried every behavior modification system out there and none have worked. We are ready to seek outside family therapy, but we worry she already sees herself as "different". She is emotionally 7 and intellectually 16 any advise??