Thanks for responses so far!

Grinity, I get what you are saying about the Ruf level being indicative of how accurate the eval/assessment would be. Okay, so If I think he is 3-4 in most areas like reading, math, colors, academic concepts but not advanced at all in areas like verbal expression and walked a little late (16 mo) does that either not make him gifted but savant like in a way? splinter skills or something? I'm SO confused like he is in the middle all the time, swaying me back and forth. But SO advanced in areas like math, reading, spelling, writing, languages.

The latest concern is a possible facial tic?? Stim?? Experimenting with faces? Knows he's doing it but definitely weird looking and he says he can't help it. On and off for a few days (an open mouth kind of grimace or something). Ugh. Stress.