Thanks everyone for your input on this subject! If anyone else comes across this post, I'd love to hear more stories about how:
1. You were on the fence about gettng a dx and very glad you did
2. You were on the fence about getting a dx and wish you hadn't
3. You are on the fence and choose not to get evaluated bc quirkiness isn't affecting much.
4. You feel your kid got a wrong dx.

Thanks!