thanks, Grinity. I think he is smarter than he gives himself credit and his score is higher, but he says he had to work hard and study in school in a way that makes him feel he is above average, even quite above average, but not "like his brother." We actually had a wonderful conversation this morning and that felt great. It is hard to have meaningful interaction with a two year old and three year old who are talkative and very smart and highly active literally running between your legs.