I think you have confused Kerry and I...
Sorry,I did confused and it really skewed my gut reaction.
Kerry, sorry to hear that your DD may be having a UTI, those are no fun.
I would love to see Kerry's daughter in a classroom where the other kids are similar in academic ability to her. I think we agree on that.
'Demanding' teachers are tough to read. Some are monsters and some are the best thing that ever happened to a kid. I do think that having some faith in a child's inner strength is important, and then there is that line that gets crossed, and game is over. I've been there and it's a very emotional thing.
Shrugs and More Shrugs,
Grinity