I'm new on here and read the discussion on the explosive child. I've just begun reading it and have not come to the part of WHAT to do yet, all I know is I'm exhausted from fighting my four year ols and now my 2 1/2 year old is picking up on his behavior. I don't feel like taking them anywhere right now and yet socialization is what they need! It was great to read your posts and know I'm not alone, which I have been feeling so much lately.