I'm sorry my SIL & BIL are bit the same way. I got the "You know she can not read!" comment when DD was 22mo and she sight read some words. And I never said or thought she can read. I wonder what would they say now that she might be around the same level than his 6 year old cousin. Well they live far away for now. They also loved to make a point how their kids did everything that DD was doing at the same age. I don't really care if they did or not, I just don't like how they can not give her any credit with out mentioning how their kids did it too.
We also love to hear about their kids DHs nephews achievements and I think we are the only ppl they can freely brag. Those boys are amazing and it does not make me jealous only proud. I wonder how they can not feel the same way about DD, I know they love her a lot.
We only saw MIL & FIL and I'm not sure how well it went.