Good grief! People are so weird! I just don't get it. It sounds like you handled it in a very positive manner, but I'm sorry you had to deal with that. It's definitely just her own insecurity. If only these people knew that while we appreciate our children's gifts and talents, we also deal with some major struggles. I often consider those people lucky not to have to deal with those challenges, but I sure don't resent them, nor am I jealous that their kids don't have daily meltdowns (well...maybe I am a little but I don't act rude about their children!!!). Thank goodness for this site, right? It's such a relief to come here and know others can relate. Take a deep breath and shake it off, as you say!