Originally Posted by Kriston
My problem with programs like this is the opportunity cost. If a child is spending time being drilled on reading at an earlier-than-natural time for that child, then the child is missing out on the "sweet spot" for other learning that s/he is ripe for. For what? So that the child can be Mommy's little trained seal to show off for friends? frown

I want kids' learning to be on their specific timetable, with an understanding of the range of normal human development (and the understanding that it *is* a range, with outliers who are different from the norm). But I don't want kids' learning to be shoehorned into *any* adult timetable--either one that's faster than is appropriate for that particular child or one that's slower than is appropriate for that particular child.

When this topic comes up, I always think of the advice I read years ago about toilet training. It said that for most parents, if they started training at age 1 and worked daily on it they'd have a child who was trained at around age 3. Or they could wait to start until age 3...and have a child who was trained at around age 3. wink

Seems applicable here.

ITA. smile Except that I'm not sure your toilet training analogy really works. My DD started before she was a year old...because I couldn't bring myself to ignore her when she started signing "potty" right before she peed. She wasn't nighttime trained until she was about 2 1/2, but I don't think that the time she spent prior to that working on that skill was wasted. (But I do agree that for most kids there is no point in starting early. As I said, I only did it because she initiated it, and not because I had an agenda or expectation.)