Originally Posted by no5no5
I feel like such a hypocrite when these programs come up in conversation. frown The truth is, I think they are pretty awful. I don't think learning to read early is necessarily a good thing--and certainly not something that is worth slaving over. In fact, when "they" say the dreaded kids-even-out-in-reading-by-third-grade thing, I am pretty sure it is because of kids who learned to read through these programs. They likely do even out, because even though they may have a head start, early reading does not make them gifted. In fact, I am not aware of any benefit whatsoever from these programs.

The reason I feel like a hypocrite is that my 3 year old is a fluent reader. I feel like I can't tell people to wait to teach their kids to read when my DD3 reads whole books on her own, fluently, and with feeling and comprehension. Of course I did NOT teach her (though I did sometimes let her play around on Starfall).

Also, I have no opinion on whether all kids can be taught to read, but whenever I see early reading discussed in the literature as being a sign of giftedness, it is almost invariably distinguished as being self-taught early reading. So I presume that it is possible to teach a ND child to "read" early at least to some extent. I don't know how much work it takes...but I am pretty sure that regardless of how much work it is, it is all a waste of time. wink

Well said, I think exactly the same way except that I'm sure you can not teach all the kids to read that early as some kids struggle with reading when they are learning it in school. I have read (from this forum) that sometimes younger kids start with learning the sight words and then they somehow develop their own way of decoding the words, not necessary the typical phonics.

Maybe I'm weird but I rather have my DD2 watch something not educational than educational DVDs. As she is so advanced already she certainly does not need a DVD to teach her anything. I prefer her to enjoy a nice movie instead "learning to read". I can teach her anything she is interested in.