I know. This is not a clear-cut case which is why I'm trying not to assume anything. He is (almost) 6. Could just be coincidence.

We've been prepping the boys for a while on the new baby just like we did with older DS previously (the boys get along very, very well).

To KatelynsMom's point we spend a good amount of time explaining reasons to DS as tiring as that can be! smile ... sometimes, though, it does have to get to the point of "because I said so." What we're trying to get him to understand is that at school you do have to follow all of the rules and follow what the aides say. I think he's testing boundaries there too and I don't think they get him yet.

This is definitely frustrating and concerning. Thanks for the comments and thanks for listening!

JB