We give a small allowance. We do have chores, but the allowance is not related. Large chores, like cutting the grass or washing the car, may come with additional money.
However, then we also do not buy extras. You want a pack of gum at the store? Sure, but it is being deducted from your account. Etc.
I probably come out ahead. And kids get the freedom of spending money AND learning money skills.
I do not pay for grades or practicing. I agree that it may affect intrinsic motivations. Praising for doing extra probably would work better, imo.
Last edited by howdy; 03/31/18 04:53 PM.
