Yeah, I wasn't sure how much I wanted to confuse the questions. There are a few things going on there and I'm probably not sorting through them well.

I expect him to skip a year ahead in math next year (it's hard to skip 1st grade but easy to skip subsequent grades in our district), but I hate to talk that up as the solution to everything because it may still not be the kind of math he wants to do (AoPS is more fun) or hard enough (can only skip one year at once).

Instead of homework I think he'd like to read. He's consuming upper elementary chapter books right now in a way that's just insane. He also likes to read ahead in the Beast Academy books he'll get to in future years for after school math. And some legos and stuff like that. Just downtime.

He does his homework in aftercare at school and really at home just needs to make corrections and do about 15 min of work. I think he spends much more time and energy dreading it than he does actually doing the work.

Maybe just some help organizing it or approaching it.

Is this fairly normal?