He generally does do better with a lot of notice, but he will still resist certain activities. Giving him a choice results in him saying "neither", of course smile

I don't think he has significant social anxiety, maybe some. He generally does ok in social situations modulo the occasional outburst. Lately he hasn't been into going outside - the weather has been lousy so we don't push it - but no panic attacks. He will panic if he sees a bee outside though.