Thank you everyone.
Twin 2 is testing right now and my stomach is in knots. I'm totally second guessing myself.

At least I'll know soon enough how different their needs are!

ElizabethN, im considering s school change for twin #1 bc I can barely meet his math/ computer/science needs. It's a full time job after school right now. But he's a twin! It might just be too sad/ hard to split. I think I'm looking for the least damage here. I'm hoping somehow testing will make that decision more clear. As a twin would you have ever consented to different schools?

Laurie918, we are in a great school, great town, but bc of this there are too many parents pushing the school for more. Each time I think I have advocated well
Someone hears about it and it's revoked. In a perfect world he would work with s math tutor during school. My other son is doing well in school with extras of chess and reading at home.