Originally Posted by Michaela
They tried to give him extra time on tests, though. In grade 1. Which doesn't seem to me likely to help him not poop his pants.


As much as I can (and believe me, I'm not perfect), I try to respond to stuff like this with polite questions. "I'm sorry, I don't quite understand. How will giving him extra time on tests help him avoid having poop accidents?" Then shut up and look at them with an expectant smile, as if you expect them to have a good answer.