I'm struggling a lot with my DD right now--she's still throwing tantrums and is like an emotional hurricane. I'm working on fixing her diet and vitamins (we found out she has some MTHFR mutations, as do I--but that's for another post).

She's also a perfectionist, and I'm worried she will give up easily if I test her now... but I want to know what I'm dealing with. If she's gifted, I understand the emotional intensity, the mood swings, all of it--if she isn't, well maybe we have some other issues that need addressing.

What's the best test for a 4.5 year old, or should I wait on it until I get her moodiness / diet sorted?