I'll admit it feel a bit like cheating. I have to keep telling myself it's not.
As a parent of a child about the same age, who isn't getting accommodations, let me reassure you that I DO NOT consider it even remotely like cheating, and almost all my friends feel the same way. We know a few kids with ADHD and autism who are very gifted but need extra time, and if anything, we feel bad that they have to test under conditions so not conducive to showing how smart they are (one is actually quite brilliant, but would probably need triple the time to show it). You should feel really proud for successful advocacy!
