Nope, not a downer. Your kind of situation is precisely why I think one-size-fits-all does NOT work! We all have to do what's best for our specific kids and our specific families. Period. And judging others for making the best choices they could in a given situation is beyond stupid.
I'm glad there's some measure of encouragement to at least try to breastfeed now. But I would NEVER want anyone to feel that choosing to use formula was somehow wrong. It's not. It's a valid choice, and it is the best choice is some situations.
I'm sorry the situation left you feeling bitter. I can't say I blame you one bit (!), but it's a shame.
