DeeDee, exactly. We plan to only use the term and scores with the school to determine if they can meet his needs vs. pulling him to homeschool. We are not telling friends. Grandparents know he was having testing done because he told them in conversation so we were vague. The reality is, everyone KNOWS talking to him that he's different but I do not want to label. We tested to figure out his needs and to tease out some of the 2e stuff.