Originally Posted by Bostonian
Originally Posted by Mk13
So, if that's the case and we have them both in the same school, we might as well rent them an apartment / house or purchase a small property for them to stay in and safe a TON of $ we'd otherwise need for room & board x 2.
There is no evidence that the teaching at the most prestigious schools is better, so two remaining reasons to send one's children to them are to get a more valuable credential and to mingle with smart, well-connected students. I wonder to what extent living off-campus impedes this last goal. OTOH, dorm living could be distracting and a bad influence for some students at some schools.

I found dorm living extremely distracting. There was nowhere to run to get some quiet. Plus I found the off campus living students to be the more "real life" motivated. They were the ones having part time jobs, supporting themselves, and overall serious about what they were doing.