I hope you get the answers you need.

The only thing I want to add is of a personal nature. I wish my mother had been as diligent and aware as you. I was academically advanced all through school until I hit 7th grade and high school. Oh I was still in the college prep courses and still got As when I wanted to, but I started getting Bs and Cs for the first time and eventually everything fell apart and I began to get the occasional D. The shame I felt was intolerable but it was a cycle I'd gotten myself into and had no help or awareness how to get out. I have my suspicions, these many years later, as to what led to my underachievement, but man, I wish someone had not only intervened, but noticed. Brava to you. You are doing a wonderful job advocating for your dd.