That is I think the hardest thing - I have got ds6 into the only gifted thing available (one day a week extension aimed at 95th percentile up) and he is finally going to be in a class with 2 other gifted kids and the GT coordinator. I should be happy (I am) but there could be as much difference between him and those gifted kids as there is between those gifted kids and the rest of the class (I know one is hg luckily though).