Originally Posted by ultramarina
Update: Going much better socially--DS reports that his buddy is nice and no one has said anything else unkind. BUT. OMG. Yesterday he brought home a TWELVE-PAGE packet of homework. Due Friday.

Seriously???

We did four pages yesterday, and he was actively complaining. The work is easy for him in terms of reading and understanding, but there's a lot of handwriting practice ("Write these words five times"), which he is still relatively slow at.

If it's going to be like this all the time (maybe this is an assessment packet? please??), we may have to reconsider. frown Is this at all typical for first grade?? 4 pages of reading/writing homework a night? DD's first grade was nothing like this, but she was at an odd charter school.

DS is in first grade and was getting 1 page of math (1 side of 1 sheet) on M-Th. Other than that, he gets nothing written but he is supposed to read books of his choice 20 min. per day. He has a spelling test each week but never looks at the words or studies for it.

DD got one reading worksheet per week in first grade, in addition to the one sheet of math (different teacher). Even in second grade she hardly got anything. Two sides of math instead of one. Now in third she gets the same amount of math, but also has a 4 page spelling packet each week.

What you describe sounds extremely excessive for first grade. My 6 year old would be rebelling if he had to do all that writing.